Ideal Mate Paper

This is my 'Ideal Mate' essay for Psychology. Felt the need to post it:

Throughout one's entire life, it seems as though they are constantly searching for that perfect soul mate. Does that perfect soul mate actually exist? I believe love doesn't just happen; love is something that has to be created and worked on. I do think it is wise to look for specific things in a mate, because Cinderella love does not happen.
In a mate I would look for someone who I can rely on. I have gone though many situations where that did not happen. I also need someone who is going to be trustworthy and honest. Being able to talk about all things is what makes the relationship stronger. I would also need a guy who is outgoing and open. I need someone who is going to laugh with me, instead of looking down his nose with a raised brow.
Another large factor in relationships is how both view the subject of religion. In an ideal situation, both people would practice the same religion, or no religion at all. In my case, my ideal mate would not practice a religion. I have never been interested, or believed, in religion. I feel as though in my life as it is now, I will make decisions on my own; I will not be told how to live my life, and what to believe in by a group of people who practice life from a book. If he were religious I would feel as though he would be preaching to me; looking down upon me and my sins.
I believe in a relationship there has to be some type of physical attraction. In my ideal mate, I would look for someone who is strong and handsome. Although in long lasting marriages, the female is older; I would like the guy to be older than me. I do request, though, that he be tall and have straight teeth. It has always just been a little requirement of mine.
Most times a divorce happens due to issues with money. I plan to get through college and hold a stable career. I think it is very important to be able to support one's self first. In an ideal mate I would look for someone who has career goals. It is very important to always want the best out of all things one would decide to do in his or her life.
Every girl dreams of her handsome prince charming at one point or another. Clitche is it not? I know I will never get a Cinderella dream, but there will be someone out there that will treat me right. Everyone has a soul mate somewhere, but it's up to them to decide if they want to work through the obstacles or not.